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wert der ferk
Jul. 20th, 2012 08:40 pmOkay, like--I fully understand that BDSM is not everyone's cup of tea, and that people do have legitimate reasons for being WTF about it, and so on.
But for the love of fuck.
The next person I see who pulls the 'well only EVIL PEOPLE like bondage/D&s/S&M/collars/pegging/other kinks&etc.', or who equates kink with depravity or abuse, or who does that goddamn 'it's sooooo hot but OMG WRONG WRONG AND EVIL AND BAD AND SICK' I will do such an acrobatic fucking triple salchow right off the handle...
...and I will land on the hapless dipshit perpetuating this bullshit ELBOWS FIRST.
Yes, kinky relationships can be abusive. I have seen these relationships in action. The key thing is, ANY AND ALL RELATIONSHIPS can be abusive. I will never deny that people use kink as a means to be fuckers; of course they would, since abusers will use ANYTHING as a means to be fuckers. But proclaiming that all kink is abuse and harping on that alone is ignorant as hell and it detracts from the actual problem--namely, the goddamned abuse.
Don't use other people's suffering as an excuse to get on the soapbox about shit or push an agenda; I will kick that box out from under you so fast you would not BELIEVE...and then I will bite your knees repeatedly.
k now that i got this out of my system i really need to write some consensual healthy fun kinky stuff to get the taste of self-righteous soapbox-ghoul kneecaps out of my mouth. *pfeh, pfeh*
come to me, AU sylvanas/koltira/thassarian catpile, we shall tell cata to go fuck itself thrice and then we shall board the mirthmobile and run amok like the hooligans we are.
But for the love of fuck.
The next person I see who pulls the 'well only EVIL PEOPLE like bondage/D&s/S&M/collars/pegging/other kinks&etc.', or who equates kink with depravity or abuse, or who does that goddamn 'it's sooooo hot but OMG WRONG WRONG AND EVIL AND BAD AND SICK' I will do such an acrobatic fucking triple salchow right off the handle...
...and I will land on the hapless dipshit perpetuating this bullshit ELBOWS FIRST.
Yes, kinky relationships can be abusive. I have seen these relationships in action. The key thing is, ANY AND ALL RELATIONSHIPS can be abusive. I will never deny that people use kink as a means to be fuckers; of course they would, since abusers will use ANYTHING as a means to be fuckers. But proclaiming that all kink is abuse and harping on that alone is ignorant as hell and it detracts from the actual problem--namely, the goddamned abuse.
Don't use other people's suffering as an excuse to get on the soapbox about shit or push an agenda; I will kick that box out from under you so fast you would not BELIEVE...and then I will bite your knees repeatedly.
k now that i got this out of my system i really need to write some consensual healthy fun kinky stuff to get the taste of self-righteous soapbox-ghoul kneecaps out of my mouth. *pfeh, pfeh*
come to me, AU sylvanas/koltira/thassarian catpile, we shall tell cata to go fuck itself thrice and then we shall board the mirthmobile and run amok like the hooligans we are.
