Aug. 11th, 2013

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(Inspired by...well...recent dickery. I am not addressing any especial 'you' here, but rather--a series of past dysfunctional relationships with people who turned out to be less cool than I thought. I found a few relics of one such friendship around mom and dad's house this morning, and felt the need to kvetch, so here it is.)

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Anyway.

So now you have YET ANOTHER LOOK INTO THE SCARY DRAGON-OCCUPIED DEPTHS OF MY PSYCHE and you came out mostly unscathed, so celebrate with your beverage of choice. XD

The story behind this rant is such: in high school I had a friend whom I shall call for my purposes Jay Elle because it makes her sound kryptonian and that's funny. She had a tricky family life and was depressed. Unfortunately she was also a pass-agg jerk a lot. I remained friends with her up until university despite the fact that she was often an ass to me (a lot of assery flew over my head or I thought I asked for it), and she was systematically detonating friendships left and right for tiny slights, and clinging to me whilst insulting me and "testing" my loyalty.

Then everything changed when I got therapy and got medication. She started to trash me "jokingly" for that and call me a sellout et cetera, and she backhandedly tried to fuck up my relationship with my then-fiance. Fiance's BFF caught her in the act and let both of us know, and I phased her out of my life. Which was easy, since I was the one doing all the work anyway.

Fast forward to me being 30 and she's FoaFs with a few Facebook friends and trying to message me with halfass apologies for wrongs she don't know she done blah blah and oh look she's made up a new friend who is just like me only BETTER whom she cannot shut up about...

So I blocked her. Killfile says PLONK.

I don't know why I dealt with her douchery for as long as I did, but now I don't. Alas, finding passed notes from high school in old notebooks can unearth memories bigtime. ^^;
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There's a family of blue jays (birds, not bad baseball players) living in the neighbours' backyard, and the fledglings have discovered that if they each land on one side of the bird feeder and flap like mofos, it makes a sweet-ass teeter-totter. XD

I love corvids.

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